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Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Happy Birthday, PIPER!

Today my 2nd baby is 10 years old. My precious Piper - a sweet, sensitive and wonderful girl with a beautiful voice and all the right dance moves!
We started our day at the beach...which wasn't quite as fun as usual due to the crazy storms over the last two days.

Our usually serene, calm and clear beach...




had a super high tide and was covered in seaweed...not to mention the rather large waves. But at least we had the beach to ourselves...



Chloe and Piper enjoyed the waves...




but Ryder and Lola were none too thrilled, so they played on the playground.







Then we took a walk along the historical trail next to the beach. It was beautiful!


I especially loved the ruins of a home just off the shoreline. It was really cool! Bermuda has quite a rich history, discovered and settled around the same time as Jamestown and even played a role in the revolutionary war. So there are some really cool, really old structures!



Awww....siblings!



And...siblings with a photobomb by daddy!



Then we found a banyon tree and an impromtu photo shoot ensued...seriously, we were there for at least 20 minutes just snapping photos. Only the Huntsman family, you know?
Here's a smattering of photos!







Spiderman hands..not the middle finger!


















We came home and made Piper's favorite dinner - TACOS!!




Followed by PRESENTS! Her fav - her very own iPod!



Daddy had rehearsal, so we had to wait a while for cake. But here it is!




Frosted by Piper herself. And we didn't have any candles...so we improvised.
All in all, a celebration of our sweet Pips!





Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Nothing's perfect!

What a crazy few days! I have been sick, which is way not fun...for anyone involved. I was laid up in bed from Friday night to yesterday afternoon and haven't felt 100% until today. So the kids have been a little beach deprived but they'll survive! We have lots of time still.

The one good thing that came of my illness was that I had to stop. I didn't even want to look at my iPad so if I wasn't sleeping, I actually just watched TV. I've definitely become an info addict, always on my phone, computer or iPad. Having no cellphone service has been so great for me! I'm not a slave to it. I walk to the store without any easy way to call home and I'm fine. And home is fine. We become so reliant on our tech, we forget that we used to get by just fine without it. This 2 month detox is doing wonders for my anxiety level, believe it or not. It's amazing how much less I stress out with less information. It seems counter intuitive, but its working.

I do miss a lot of the conveniences of home. Don't get the wrong idea, Bermuda is a fully developed country, they just have limitations because of their size and government regulations to keep businesses in Bermuda. So basically what I'm saying is that there are no chain restaurants or stores. No Starbucks, no McDonalds or Taco Bell, no Target or Walmart...the only caveat is a KFC in downtown Hamilton. No drive thrus. We don't have car anyway because there are no car rentals in Bermuda. It's fine, we have a beach and a grocery store within walking distance and we can get rides when we need to go somewhere else. There's also a good transit system here, though we haven't ventured on it yet.

It's also a good detox from shopping. The only shopping I get to do is grocery shopping. And when a trip to just pick up a few things at the grocery store is minimum $50, that's enough!

Oh, wait...there is a "dollar" store...





Where everything costs $2.50 and up!

Ok, enough complaining! So the national sport here is cricket - there's a big national holiday next week called Cup Match that centers around cricket between the two on island rivals, St George's and Sommerset. I caught some cricket practice on our way to the beach last week!





I thought it s really cool even though I have absolutely no idea how it is played. It looks like a combination of baseball and croquet!

Lola and Ryder were being adorable on the way to the beach the other day...travel buddies!





We also had a major rainstorm yesterday! Thunder and lightening in the morning, a lovely overcast afternoon, then an even bigger storm in the evening that lasted pretty much all night! It was a lovely cool down.

It's still overcast and stormy, we even got rained on on the way to the store today. The sea was gorgeous! You know how you always read, usually in romance novels, of how the sea reflected the stormy sky? It's true! This was the shoreline across from the market today.













I really just love it.

Now, back to shopping, they also have some interesting new things at the market because some of their merchandise comes from England! Like the chivers jams and this yummy yogurt! It's my new obsession.




Finally, and last but not least, my kids eternally crack me up!

First of all, Steve took Ryder for a walk early one morning and as they passed this....




...Ryder says "Hey, look! A shipwreck!"




Then this weekend when Steve took the kids to the beach by himself, Lola says "I wish the gods didn't put salt in the water." Steve says "Who?" Lola "The gods! The life gods!"

Tomorrow is Piper's birthday! Hopefully the weather will cooperate!

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Sunday, July 15, 2012

Trouble in Paradise & Paradise in....Paradise

So first, the toilet broke. No big deal, and easy fix, but it's not like there's a Lowes just down the block. But seriously, no big deal.

Then yesterday, the power went out for about 2 hours. Again, not a big deal, though I was a little worried because I needed to get some alterations done for the cast photo shoot that was today. But when the power came back on, the water quit working. Which was a concern. I knew we had a well and the water tank under the house and I wasn't sure what the deal was. But I thought that maybe some pressure just needed to build back up.

The girl who lives in the apartment below our house, Mayeesha, came home and I told her what was going on. She called her brother who came over to look at it. He said there was a problem with the switch and she showed me how to turn it back on if needed.

We had water again for a little while and then nothing again. So I went out to the pump and tried to turn it on. No luck!

When Steve got home, we called the homeowner and she said she'd have someone out in the morning to look at it! Which was good but not too helpful for a sink full of dishes. Not to mention the need of a shower for both of us to get ready for the photo shoot...

So we used our best improv skills and went out in the yard to do dishes, as it was then rain water pump that was out, but the well pump was fine and it supplies water to the yard, toilet and washer.




The girls, washing, rinsing and drying!



Ryder, handing me a knife to put away.

But, a little while later, Steve pulled a MacGuyver to hold the broken switch on so that we could get enough water in the pressure tank to take a shower...



That's my industrious husband!

Then, this morning, someone came and fixed it and we made it to the photo shoot in fine fashion!

We started at a studio with headshots. After getting everyone into costume, we headed out to a conservation area called Spittal Pond. This was our first shoot location.














Absolutely gorgeous! And the photos are going to be amazing! I'll be sure to share them when we get them back.



Walking to the shoot.



I'm just soaking in all of these new environments. I don't think I'll ever get over the gorgeous shade of blue of the ocean.

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Location:Bermuda

Saturday, July 14, 2012

Good times in BERNUDA!

One week (and a few days) down!

BerNUDA? Yeah, that's what Lola and Ryder call it, and well, it just kinda stuck!

I'm going to be honest...we don't do a lot here. Lots of chilling out at our little home. And then I really stink at taking pictures. I just don't think about it! Or I forget my phone, because we don't have an adaptor for our camera to our laptop, so I'm relying on phone photos right now.

But here's some snapshots of the week!

Lots more time at Shelly Bay, the beach right by our house. We go almost every day. It's really the perfect beach...calm and shallow.




If the tide is low, the girls can make it out probably over 100 feet and still touch! There are virtually no waves, even when it's stormy out. We really love our beach! The water is just so blue...it's surreal every time we go!



I don't quite know when Lola became such a "poser", but I love it!




I guess it runs in the family!

BTW - Ryder has been fighting a nasty rash around his mouth for about 6 months! Seen here:



While it was getting better just before we left, turns out the cure was BERNUDA!



He is happy! And so adorable.

I have been to rehearsal with Steve a few times now. It's a great way to show some of the unique aspects of Bermuda.




Like they are only allowed one car per household because of the limited roads here, so everyone has mo-peds! Here's a bunch lined up at rehearsal.

Oh, and Lola and her friend Shia! Shia is daughter of one of the producers do the show. Instant BFF's!






Here's a photo of the expensive peppers...these were a little cheaper. $5.99 per lb!



The homes in Bermuda are very colorful! Beautiful, really, though they would probably look ridiculous anywhere else. I'm really in love with the white stepped roofs! But they also share another purpose. They gather the rain which is stored in tanks under the home and provide water for the home! We didn't have much rain at first when we got here so I was a little worried with 6 of us in this small home. But we had some rain the last few days and Steve showed me the tank... we have plenty of water. You do see water trucks that will come give you a fill up if you need it, but I hear it's quite pricey!


Yesterday we finally got out of the house a bit and headed to Horseshoe Bay, one of the most famous beaches here. It's actually right on the coast and it's a limestone beach so the sand is extremely fine! And it has a slightly pink tone to it, so they call it a pink sand beach, though the kids were disappointed that it wasn't actually fuchsia! There is a storm blowing in so the water was extremely rough with severe rip tide, so there were actually advisories not to go in the water. We went in a bit, not to far. Lola, Ryder and I spent most of our time at the cove just off to the side that is completely enclosed by rocks so it's nice and calm and shallow.




Of course we took lots more pictures...on the other camera. Posing' up a storm, of course!

Needless to say, we are enjoying ourselves and the show is going well. I'll try to remember to keep my camera with me and take more interesting photos!




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Saturday, July 7, 2012

Our Bermuda Adventure - THE BEACH!

So here's where we live for the next 2 months...geographically speaking.




Which happens to be a 10 minute walk...




Along some very narrow roads without sidewalks...(but people drive slowly and they aren't that busy)




And a busy road, with sidewalks...




With this view of water to the left...




And arrival at this beach...




Where we are happy to pose dramatically....




And swim for hours!




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Friday, July 6, 2012

Our Bermuda Adventure...Days One and Two!

Well, here we are! We made it!

Briefly, for those of you who don't know, my Husband was hired to travel here to Bermuda to direct a production of Once On This Island, a musical! So, well, it's a chance of a lifetime, we decided to bring the kids and make an adventure out of it! We will be here for 8 weeks!

This is my first time traveling off continent...I mean, I've been to Canada before, but that's it!

Our travel here was tiring but relatively uneventful. We left Las Vegas on the evening for the 4th of July, which was less than ideal for the kids, so I think we were the only people who weren't disappointed that it was a rainy 4th. But we did see fireworks as we took off!

After we lumbered to the check in counter with 6 large bags - 3 for us and 3 full of costumes, and a plethora of backpacks and carry on suitcases, we were met at the gate by our friend Hillary who works for the airlines!



Waiting for our flight!



Hillary, helping Ryder scan his own ticket!

We flew overnight to Atlanta, hoping our children would sleep. They were so excited to be on a plane, sleep didn't happen for a while. We has a nasty 4 hour layover in Atlanta, but we found a cozy spot, daddy napped and I kept the kids as entertained as possible. Lola got to sit by the window for takeoff and that might have been one of the best mommy moments EVER! She was so excited and just kept laughing and pointing out parks and freeways! Adorable!

It was an easy, 2.5 hour flight and when she fell asleep, I switched seats with her so I could sit at the window. Getting to see the island as we flew over...the unreal blue color of the water, the reefs...um, AMAZING! I felt like a child myself.

When we landed, the first thing we were treated to was the humidity! It's a comfy 80 degrees with a slight breeze, really nice! But my kids were wondering why it smelled like rain and Ryder, who was also asleep when we landed, said "OK, who put the lotion on me when I was sleeping!" Try explaining humidity to a 6 year old who lives in the dryer desert of Las Vegas!

We made it through immigration and customs with very little trouble. We were a bit worried because of Steve's work permit and the costumes we were bringing with us. Thankfully it was all arranged and our customs officer said he wanted to come see the show!

We were met by Shoa, one of the board members of Troika Bermuda, the company producing the show, and her mom! They were so excited for us to finally be here and we were thrilled to meet them. Somehow we packed our giant suitcases and 6 family members into two small cars (honestly, all the cars in Bermuda are small) and we were on our way! In a cars with drivers on the right hand side and the tiniest, narrowest roads you've ever seen!

We arrived at our cozy little home and unloaded. It's a great little 3 bedroom cottage!



My kids, perpetual posers!




It's green and lush and beautiful everywhwere!

They said they wanted to take us in to Hamilton for dinner And to rehearsal. I was so tired but it was only 4pm here so I didn't want to go to sleep yet. So we agreed! We didn't spend much time at rehearsal because we were so tired, so Steve came and we went to the grocery store. Which was shocking! I knew things would be expensive, but wow! Just wow! Fresh produce are by the the most insane! $6 for a bag of salad, $6.49 for one bell pepper. Bread is also pricey -$5.99 was on the bag of one loaf they had for us here, I found one for $4.29 from a local bakery and was like, ooh, a deal!











But, it is what it is and we planned for it and it's worth it...it's so beautiful here and the people are so nice and the culture is just wonderful!

The house we're staying in is being sublet by a family who goes to Barbados for the summer - go figure! So we are asked to take care of the family dog and a couple of stray cats who hang out...because they get fed every morning and evening... I don't know if the kids are more exited about being in Bermuda or playing with the animals!



Marlee, the patient pooch!



Simba, the only cat around when I was taking picture.

After a weird night trying to get used to a 5 hour time difference, we hit the beach today that's about a 10 minute walk from our house! The water is so blue and clear, the water so warm and the beach is very shallow! It was incredible, we'll probably be there every day!

And the pictures of the beach are on the camera in Steve's bag, so you'll have to wait until the next post to see.... :-)

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Sunday, March 4, 2012

Advice from a Directors Wife - AUDITIONS

My husband is a passionate and talented director/designer. He's been directing musical theatre productions for over 6 years now and I can't tell you how much I (as an actress) have learned from getting a glimpse behind the scenes of a directors casting process - and not just from my husband, I have worked on a number of other shows and been privy to the casting process.

So, seeing as how there are a large number of community theatre auditions coming up here in Las Vegas over the next few weeks (and none of them for my husband), I thought I'd share a little bit of what I've learned from my 17 years in the community theatre and my behind the scenes work over the last several years. My observations as I believe there are no steadfast "rules" to auditioning as every actor and every director is different. You need to find what works for you and go with it. So my purpose in writing this is to share MY PERSONAL experience and hope it will perhaps at least give you something to think about in your quest to be cast in community theatre productions. The professional world, well, I'll leave that to the professionals.

I should tell you that while I am often a sounding board and almost always hands on in keeping the audition process organized, I don't get a vote or say in the casting of individuals except in the rare case that I am asked my opinion as a costumer. I do usually know what's going on, though....because when you get those e-mails at 3am, I was usually the secretary behind them.

**Disclaimer - these are only my opinions. And these opinions are not endorsed by my husband. Just my humble observations and experiences.**

#1. READ THE AUDITION NOTICE THOROUGHLY!

I can't tell you how many emails a director receives with questions that are clearly stated in the audition notice. The number one question is "Is this a paid gig?" The answer is almost ALWAYS in the audition notice and if it's not, you should question if you want to work for that company. If you call or email a director with a question regarding information that was clearly stated in the audition, it will probably raise a small red flag for the director. Don't be lazy, read the whole thing and do what it says! The director is telling you exactly what they need from you so use that to your advantage! Which leads to #2.

#2. Prepare. Prepare! PREPARE!!!!!

Now that you've thoroughly read the audition notice, PREPARE for your audition! Follow the instructions given. Show the director that you are capable of doing what you are asked to do. This is a small victory!

When it comes to audition choice, this is where you must learn to make an educated decision regarding what is best for yourself! Some directors like you to sing something from the show you are auditioning for. If this is your decision, please pick a song the character you are auditioning for sings. It doesn't do you any good if you want to play The Phantom in Phantom of the Opera and you come in singing Think of Me. The advice I have heard most often is to have an audition book with several selections - a ballad, an uptempo, something rock, something pop...songs that show off your strengths! I like to have some selections from different composers...say sing something from Oklahoma! if I'm auditioning for South Pacific. Regardless, make sure your selection is appropriate to the casting notice.

Then get your sheet music (or track if asked) and learn it. LEARN IT INSIDE AND OUT! Know it so well that you can't screw up. Find a friend who plays or get an accompanist to play the music for you so that you know it's in the right key! Have them make a rehearsal track so you are used to singing with just piano. There are online services for this as well - cheap! Use Google. I'm not doing the work for you. :) Take into account the accompaniment in your piece. Some composers are notorious for writing very difficult accompaniments. Your audition pianist may be seeing the piece for the first time that day. If you are clueless about this kind of thing, seek out a friend who can help you out. Don't sabotage your audition by picking a piece that even a really good pianist has to work at to learn. Occasionally you will have a really bad accompanist in an audition. This is where you pay attention to #3 and keep going!

Then really work on your piece. Sing it 100 times. Memorize the words and let your voice learn how to sing it so that it becomes muscle memory so that even if you are nervous, your body and mind know what to do. There is nothing more frustrating than seeing that someone is talented but they get so flustered by forgetting words or they can't hear the key because the piano accompaniment is foreign to them. Then do your work as an actor, create a character and commit to choices during the song. It's an opportunity for you to perform for the director! Never ask them to take your word for it, that you are great - you have a video! SHOW them!!

Also, a word on measures...usually in an audition notice, you are asked to sing 16 or 32 bars or something like that. This is a guide! If your piece is fast and it takes 20 bars to get through a chorus, than don't stop it short. Don't get so literal and make sure that you have plenty of piano intro to establish your key and starting note. Mark CLEARLY on your music where the selection should start and stop. GET help if you need it so that you can direct the pianist as needed.

#3. THE AUDITION

Start with the basics. Pick what you are going to wear ahead of time. Something flattering and neutral is generally a good idea. I like to pick something inspired by the show itself - if I'm auditioning for an ingenue, I like to wear a feminine dress or skirt and top. A sexy role? Well, I'm going to wear something more fitted with a little cleavage maybe. I prefer bold colors to black (my preference) and something slightly memorable. I guess because I've heard so many times at an audition table "What about that one girl...she sang..um...you know, the one in that fabulous orange dress!"

Take a minute to calm yourself. My biggest audition ever was an invited audition for Cirque du Soleil! On the first day, after waiting a nerve wrenching 6 hours to audition, my nerves were so bad I hardly recognized the voice coming out of my mouth! By some miracle I was called back for an extended audition the next day.  I KNEW I had to get control over my nerves. So that was my only focus that day. I had prepared my songs well so I made the decision to trust myself. I decided that nailing that audition was more important that letting my nerves win. I spent the whole day doing calm things, getting ready early so I could take my time with my hair and makeup - things that calm me. I gave myself a pep talk, reminded myself to breath and chose to believe in myself. And...I NAILED IT! Yes, I was still a little nervous, especially when they were chatting with me, but my vocals were truly my best. And while I was thrilled that I was "accepted to the Cirque du Soleil database", I think I was more satisfied that I was able to overcome my nerves and do an audition I was proud of! It sure made up for that time that I was so nervous at a callback I went into the bathroom and CRIED between every time I was called into the room. I like to pretend that never happened. And I didn't get cast, either. I'm sorry, where were we?

So take time before you are called to FOCUS. Calm your mind, put your eye on the prize and choose confidence! Confidence (when you can back it up with talent and skill) is hugely attractive to a director. Directors want to work with actors who will bring something to the table, not timid but talented actors who will need constant coddling. The director/actor relationship should be a partnership - show him or her that you are a willing to meet him/her halfway in creating a character!

So this is important - BE NICE to the audition staff! The people signing you in, calling numbers. Be as professional and courteous to them as you are to the director. You never know when his wife will be sitting out there and that attitude you gave her about auditions running behind and that your life is more important than everyone else waiting there will probably get back to the director. And that's not a good thing.

In the audition room, let the director/stage manager/AD (whoever is running the audition) take the lead. Yes, that means speak when spoken to. There's nothing wrong with saying hello as you enter the room, but even if the director is a friend of yours, which happens a lot in the community world, treat it as a professional experience. A job interview, if you will. BE NICE to the pianist! Even if you don't know music that well (and if you don't, run right out and find a basic theory class if you wish to pursue any more public performance as a singer), know what you need from the song. Point out any key changes, tempo changes. Sing a few bars so the accompanist can get a feel for the tempo. Be as brief as possible but thorough. The pianist can be your ally! And you never know if they might even be the musical director. And I have seen directors ask pianists for their impression of a singer before.

As you start your audition, it's important to remember that those evaluating your audition - whether it's 2 people at a table or 12, they truly want you to be good. Amazing. Perfect for the role! A directors decision is hard as it is, please give them your best to choose from. I always feel so bad when I hear a director say - well, I'm not sure they can do this role - and often times it's because a person wasn't confident in their audition or made a poor choice of it.

Choose an imaginary subject to sing to just barely above and behind the auditioners' heads. Making eye contact can make both of you uncomfortable. I remember a musical director saying how he/she really wanted to take notes on an auditionee but they were so intently singing the song directly to the musical director that he/she felt like she couldn't look away and it was uncomfortable. I don't necessarily believe that this is a tried and true rule - some songs might call for you to look around a bit, but the imaginary person rule is a pretty good jumping off point.

IF you screw up...KEEP GOING! Don't stop. Even if the piano is clearly screwing up, which happens, don't stop! Let the director stop you if that's the case. If you forget your words...make them up! Sing on La or na na na or do be do be hey! Repeat words you just sang! It's not a lyrics test. They really aren't even listening to the lyrics...they're listening to your tone, interpretation. In fact, if you forget the words but can emote on ahhh on the same level, that's pretty impressive! Now please don't go forgetting your lyrics on purpose, but even the most prepared person may get lost in the moment and lyrics escape them. Just keep going! I can't emphasize that enough.

For scene work or cold reads, MAKE CHOICES! Even if they are unusual or don't fit what the director is looking for initially, show the director that you have the ability to make choices. And then make new ones if directed to do so! Take a breath and make sure you aren't speaking too fast (something I almost always do in cold reads) Use your imaginary person again if you need to. While waiting for the audition, read over the material enough times to be familiar with it. Memorize a few words so you can look up from you paper from time to time! Jump into a character who isn't nervous!

Following your audition, listen to what you are told regarding callbacks/casting. Make sure you say thank you! And then be classy as you leave. Whether you are on cloud 9 because you nailed it or you are super bummed because you blew it, just be calm and don't turn it into a lot of drama in front of the other auditioners/staff. Remember, you are always being watched! Directors want to work with positive, focused people. Wait until you get to your car or even your bedroom to turn on the waterworks or dance it out!

#4 CALLBACKS

Pretty much just follow the same rules. Be prepared and focused. Keep going and be confident. Have a positive attitude!

Attitude is probably most important in callbacks. I have heard so many times "Well, it's clear that actor only wanted the lead because when he read for the character role, he really didn't try very hard. Disappointing!" Or "All I can remember from her audition is how many times she apologized for screwing up!" In the callbacks, you have the opportunity to show a director your work ethic and your talent and skills. Be focused, don't goof around, be willing to try something new! Sometimes a director will throw something at you just to see how willing you are to go somewhere new! Be flexible and be positive. Even if you feel like getting this role is the most important thing ever in the universe, don't let your desperation show. If you and 3 other actors are auditioning for the same role and the other one's are clearly really talented, take that as a compliment that you were included in that group of talented people and show the director that you have a great attitude and work ethic to match your talents. So many times I've heard of an actor/actress who got more and more down in a callback audition as others thrived. It's like I tell my kids all the time - worry about yourself! And be positive and supportive of the other actors. Remember - attitude counts!

Also, don't make assumptions! I remember one particularly broken hearted actress who assumed she had the role because she was the only one called back at a certain time. She failed to recognize that there were other callbacks held at another time and while she had an excellent audition, the role went to another actress who was more suitable for the part. Yeah, that might have been me. :)

#5 THE WAITING GAME

I know this is the hardest part, but when you know you were prepared, had a great attitude and were able to show your skills and talent to the best of your ability, this part will be a little easier. Because even if you don't get what you were hoping for, you will be able to rest easier in the confidence that you did your best and more than likely the casting decision was based on something out of your control.

Don't hound the director. If all of your friends got emails/calls and you didn't, give it a little more time and then contact the director. When there are 100's of people auditioning, sometimes people do fall through the cracks. A simple email will suffice. Don't make a big deal out of it. And even if you feel your audition wasn't up to par, resist the temptation to email a director and explain. Give them some credit - they can usually see through sickness, nerves and other obstacles. We all have days we aren't on our game and most directors are actors who've been there as well.

We'll cover casting next time. :)



Hopefully someday I'll actually get to audition again and put all these things I've learned to good use! In the meantime, I'll continue to support my husband and be the best DivaMommy I can be to my little munchkins.

Oh. And guess who will be singing in a back up choir for JENNIFER HUDSON next weekend at the Smith Center Gala? Yep. Me. Oh, did I mention that Neil Patrick Harris is hosting?  And lots of other famous people will be there? LOTS? Yeah. Kinda excited.